It’s easy to tell someone else if they want to have sex.
It’s not easy to tell someone else that they’re in love with that particular one.
Sex doesn’t need much emotion. It’s just another routine where one inserts to another, thrusting continuously like a machine.
Despite that, sometimes it gets hot because of the chemistry even if they may not do it again. But that’s not this short post is all about.
You don’t need to worry about the potential rejection too. If someone says no they don’t want to have sex with you, you move on like you never asked.
In fact, it’s too easy to the point that you don’t even have to ask. Just look into their eyes.
For me, it’s really easy to ask someone that you want to have one night stand, or one hour stand with them. Just be bold. But I didn’t. I’m shy, and it just doesn’t sounds me.
Love, regardless the type, it’s easy and difficult. It’s easy to love someone, but it’s difficult to tell someone that you’re in love with them.
You worry about the potential rejection. Especially if one is fragile, having high level of expectation. Remember the first time you got “rejected” because the other person you’re in love with doesn’t feel the same way to you? Remember you heard the news that your secret crush is probably dating someone else? Remember you heard the news that your secret crush is taken? At the end you’re crushed, heart-broken.
For me, like others, it’s really hard to express it. Because I’m shy, I guess I’ll never have a chance to express it. or even if I have the chance I probably let it slip away. Heartbreak? No. Disappointment? Yes. I’ll be ok about the rejection. But what about future friendship?
May be it’s wise just to be friends then being a couple. It’s easier.
May be it’s like what Lady GaGa describes the song “Bad Romance”….you fall in love with your best friend. or in this case, not necessary the best, you just simply falls in love with them.
